I think I have just learned a very important lesson. Do not ever try to reach for the stars. Don’t ever try to get on top because it just makes it that much further when you fall down. Don’t underachieve either, because that, too, can be troublesome. If you just stay in the middle and never do anything out of the ordinary, there are no surprises and no expectations. If you stay in the middle you can blend in with everyone else around you and you can be almost invisible. Then it doesn’t matter what you do or don’t do because nobody even knew you were there.